I have had ALOT of asian guys crushing on me ! I know some of them do. They always talk to me and hang out with me and stare at me. And there faces get red also but they would never say anything ! like my friend from my last school he really liked me but he never said anything. And now in my new school which is a largely asian race in there alot of them like me but won't say anything. Even the chinese food delivery guy *he's cute but he's like in his 20's im too young :(* like me he always says Hi to me and smile alot but when it comes to other female customers he doesn't smile or say anything just asks for there order -_-" I won't say anything because i'm too shy to say ' Hey i like you go out with me" or anything of the sorth like that to them i guess i'm waiting on them to say something %26gt;////%26lt; Are they afraid i don't like them ? because i do...i'm really attracted to asian males. But i heard asian guys don't like dating outside of their races...i don't get it ! If this is true then why do they like me or why won't they say anything...?Is it just because i'm a girl and guys just don't talk well to girls or something or is it a race thing...? I'm a teenage girl by the way. And i'm sorry if i sound conceited :( i didn't mean it that way. So wats going on ?Ive never dated anyone or had anyone confess their love for me (like tht happens in real life) xD so i'm completely new to this sort of thing. Are they shy ?!I don't get it. Alot of asian guys like me but they don't tell me. Is it because im black or just female ?!?
They probably like you, but it is hard for asian guys to ask girls out of a different race because in America, so much stereotypes are stacked up against asian guys. They probably think you wouldn't be interested in them. You have to make an exception for asian guys, if you like a a guy let him know, or he might just think you are not interested in him. This is the default mindset asian guys have. They go for asian girls because of two main reasons: 1. they only like asian girls, 2. they think they will have a better chance with asian girls than with other girls of a different race.
same problem w/ me, a lot of guys from other races hit on me but are afraid to ask me out because they assume I only date black guys.I don't get it. Alot of asian guys like me but they don't tell me. Is it because im black or just female ?!?
it hard for them to date out side their race with you being black you would put new meaning in guest who is coming to dinner
I think more and more Asian men are going to start dating Black. Take this Malcom X video it was actually posted by an Asian guy. I hope they are not getting to frustrated by the dating situation. White people have an uncanny way of ignoring problems until they literally BLOW UP. Instead a smart idea would be to start a dialog but somehow I guess they will pretend you can keep benefiting at others expense at no harm to you. Oh well I can sound the alarm for the need to dialog cannot force anyone. Well check out this video, I like the first part but I think the other part is a wee bit to radical. But again it was one made in the 1960's before Malcom went to Mecca. Interesting and Asian guy would post such a video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SXhd5HGzI…I don't get it. Alot of asian guys like me but they don't tell me. Is it because im black or just female ?!?
Well I'm an Asian guy and I would love out of my race, even go as far as marrying someone who isn't Asian. Um I think they are shy in a way or they are afraid to make a final move since maybe they think you won't feel the same. I mean the stereotypes of Asian men is that we're nerdy, speak broken English, small, not romantic, and etc. So then we wonder if girls would give us a chance.
Some Asian parents don't let their kids date at all until they go off to university since study is important.
Perhaps try to show that you are interested too.
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