My husband has been messing up the bed - Do you think he does this intentionally?

He left a big mess in it.. He brings in beers, he takes in chinese delivery food and spills it all over the sheets, drools on the pillows..



Then when it doesn't get cleaned we had a infestation and he didn't want to kill the bugs, wanted to take them to a nature center for "humane release".



He refuses to clean up the room on terms that he payed for it, so he shouldn't have to clean anything. I didn't pay or get to eat any of it so I should not have to clean it either.



is this a good marriage?My husband has been messing up the bed - Do you think he does this intentionally?
you should be a good wife and clean up yes i get tired of washing my husbands dirty laundry but that's the role of a wife
I'm a male and I never make the bed. I sometimes eat in bed. I make a mess in the bedroom. What he does with the bedbugs is going to far. I would start sleeping in a different bed. You need to sit down and have a good talk with him. Try marriage counseling.My husband has been messing up the bed - Do you think he does this intentionally?
Thats digusting and unsanitary and he needs to eat somewhere else u need to talk to him and tell him thats nasty and if he keeps doing that then you'll have to leave
No you should give him a ultimatum clean up your **** or I am filing for a divorce.My husband has been messing up the bed - Do you think he does this intentionally?
Dont listen to miss reye. You are his wife not his mom.
Get your own room.
Move next door!!!!!!!!